The Psychologist 女心理师 Episode 39

Lily came to He Dun’s studio. He Dun told Lily and Professor Qian Kaiyi Ji that he was not Ye Jiahui’s adoptive father, and Fu Tang was a patient before Professor Ji. Lily did not understand why Ye Jiahui didn’t hate his adoptive father and Professor Ji. My father abandoned it, of course he hated it, Hutton reminded him to keep quiet.

Soon, Ye Jiahui and Fu Tang thanked them for borrowing the kitchen, and then the two came to the cafe to listen to music. Fu Tang listened intently. Ye Jiahui borrowed the violin and asked if Fu Tang could play a song for himself. Fu Tang went to the stage and pulled it. Violin, I remembered the scene of teaching my son to play the violin when I was young.

Fu Tang feels that music can be seen and touched by herself, but all the good things can't be kept, so she likes the music box the most.

Dafang came to He Dun’s studio for consultation. She said that she saw Lao Song driving a girl, Li Lanzhi home, and felt that this was evidence of the other party’s derailment. Lao Song alone told He Dun that things were not what his wife had imagined. Dafang thought much. He Dun found that Lao Song was a little disappointed in their marriage because of Li Lanzhi’s appearance. Dafang said that Lao Song often went home late because he was teaching Li Lanzhi to dance, but Lao Song wanted to fool around with the other party before he was found out. Up. Hutton told the couple that the factors that couples appreciate each other when they first get together are sometimes also factors that will cause them to part ways in the future. She contacted Dafang not to avoid expressing true thoughts, but to express them directly and simply, what everyone in the marriage asked for The needs of each other are very important, and the most stable marriage is only when the effort and balance tend to be balanced. Before the end of the meeting, Horton assigned a homework homework. I hope they will think carefully about the most serious disputes in so many years when they go home. I hope they can bring this homework with them next time.

Fu Tang and Ye Jiahui went to the mall together and chose some clothes for Ye Jiahui, but the money was not enough. Ye Jiahui said that there were too many clothes to wear, and only one piece was enough.

He Dun came to his mother and saw that He’s mother was eating very simple and uncomfortable. She apologized to her mother and said that she shouldn’t lose her temper like that last time. He’s mom comforted her daughter. It’s okay and she gave her the fruit she bought yesterday. Because of the pain in the hands, He's mother couldn't hold the plate firmly. He Dun looked for a plaster for her mother, but found a pair of shoes under the sofa that had been worn for a long time.

Ye Jiahui sent Fu Tang back to the ward, took care of the other party and prepared to leave after lying down. Fu Tang suddenly apologized and said that if he saved more money, he could buy all the clothes.

In the evening, Hutton returned home for dinner. Lily looked upset. Hutton knew that Xiaojin hadn’t returned any news, so she could understand Xiaojin and give him a chance. Lily asked what happened to Hutton and his mother, Hutton talked about it. Things during the day are a bit awkward, and I don't know how to face my mother.

At this time, the door of the room was knocked, and Ye Jiahui came over to apologize to He Dun. He confessed that they already knew about Yao Kexin, and Li Yun and Mo Yu were also their tactics. He tried to disrupt He Dun’s consultation and visit relationship, monitoring He also secretly installed it. Lily asked if Fang Zhongyi did it on purpose. Ye Jiahui said it was not. Hutton told Ye Jiahui that he didn't know if he could believe him. Once some injuries were caused, there was no way to recover them.

Ye Jiahui apologized again. He didn't ask for forgiveness. He planned to leave. He Dun stopped him and said that it was time to get to know him again.

Lao Song and Dafang came to consult again. They said that the first time they quarreled was on the day of their wedding. Lao loosened up the cost of the house and bought the camera. The second time was the 18th birthday of the child Mao Mao. The husband and wife had a disagreement because of the problem of the child's education.

Horton told the two that the contradiction between the two of them was resolved when they first entered the marriage. American sociologists once said that marriage is divided into three stages. The first stage is the learning stage, that is, when they just entered the marriage. When they were trying to build a family together, they had clear goals, and it was very easy to reach consensus when faced with differences. When they entered the second stage of being parents, they put all their needs mainly on their sons. The son is drawn into the relationship between the two and becomes a multi-person triangular relationship. At this time, their contradictions can be temporarily ignored. That is because they now have a common goal, that is, their children, even if they have problems. There is no way to solve it fundamentally, and it will not endanger the relationship itself, but when the son leaves the family, the problems they have not solved before will gradually show up.

Horton told them that if the two of them do not have the help of a third party, the relationship will become more and more tense. In fact, the conflict is not terrible. The conflict is the messenger when there is a problem in their relationship. As long as these problems are solved clearly, their relationship can be better. Now let them watch the conflicting moments of the past together. The two try to understand each other's feelings from the perspective of a bystander, and then express their inner thoughts to each other.

Once Lao Song Xiaofang went to a party to eat together, Dafang laid down Lao Songjia’s dishes, Lao Song complained about his wife’s nervousness every day, but Dafang said that he had prostatitis, Lao Songhou’s wife asked her to be normal, and Dafang stopped eating. Asked who was abnormal, Lao Song pointed to Dafang and asked her to see who was normal and who passed. Lao Song felt that what he had done was really inappropriate, and hoped that he could close the door with his wife and talk about housework in the future. Dafang said that after he was also his son, he kept guarding his three-acre land just for his son and husband.